{"id":64,"date":"2015-03-16T09:17:27","date_gmt":"2015-03-16T07:17:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/dgtanhukuk.com\/blog\/?p=64"},"modified":"2015-07-06T09:36:45","modified_gmt":"2015-07-06T06:36:45","slug":"yasa-geregi-flort-edebilen-ancak-musait-olmayan-kadinlariz","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dgtanhukuk.com\/blog\/index.php\/2015\/03\/16\/yasa-geregi-flort-edebilen-ancak-musait-olmayan-kadinlariz\/","title":{"rendered":"Yasa Gere\u011fi Fl\u00f6rt Edebilen Ancak M\u00fcsait Olmayan Kad\u0131nlar\u0131z"},"content":{"rendered":"

“Bir kad\u0131n\u0131 40 erkek ister 1’i al\u0131r, bir adam\u0131 40 kad\u0131n ister; 40\u0131 da al\u0131r \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc erkek vicdanl\u0131d\u0131r, k\u0131yamaz hi\u00e7 bir kad\u0131n\u0131 de\u011ferlendirmeden g\u00f6ndermeye :))).”<\/p>\n

Bu \u00a0\u015fu aralar sosyal medyada d\u00f6nen espri konular\u0131ndan biri. \u00a0Erkek kad\u0131n aras\u0131nda \u00a0sadece biyolojik fark yok malesef, bu memlekte yasalar ve di\u011fer d\u00fczenlemeler de malesef bu e\u015fitsizli\u011fi destekler nitelikteler.<\/p>\n

Biliyorsunuz ki,\u00a0T\u00fcrk Dil Kurumu\u2019nun (TDK), sosyal medyada olduk\u00e7a tart\u0131\u015f\u0131lan ‘m\u00fcsait’ kelimesi i\u00e7in verdi\u011fi kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k, TBMM Genel Kurulu\u2019nda da g\u00fcndem oldu. \u00a0Konuyu Genel Kurul\u2019da g\u00fcndeme ilk olarak HDP \u0130stanbul Milletvekili Levent T\u00fczel getirdi: \u201cBu iktidar\u0131n zihniyeti bak\u0131yoruz T\u00fcrk Dil Kurumu\u2019nda kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131za \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yor. \u2018Fl\u00f6rt etmeye m\u00fcsait\u2019 diyerek bir kez daha kad\u0131n\u0131 hakir g\u00f6ren, a\u015fa\u011f\u0131layan, e\u015fitsizli\u011finin \u00fczerine vurgu yapan, cinsiyet\u00e7i s\u00f6m\u00fcr\u00fcye a\u00e7\u0131k bir s\u00f6ylem…\u201d<\/p>\n

Ben de bakt\u0131m, bakmam m\u0131, TDK internet sitesindeki s\u00f6zl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde “m\u00fcsait” kelimesinin anlamlar\u0131ndan biri, “fl <\/strong>\u00f6 <\/strong>rt etmeye haz <\/strong>\u0131 <\/strong>r olan, kolayca fl <\/strong>\u00f6 <\/strong>rt edebilen (kad <\/strong>\u0131 <\/strong>n)” <\/strong>olarak a\u00e7\u0131klan\u0131yor.<\/p>\n

Tecav\u00fcze u\u011frayan kad\u0131n, namussuz g\u00f6z\u00fcyle bak\u0131lan kad\u0131n, mahkeme \u00f6n\u00fcnde erke\u011fin kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda ma\u011fdur olan yine kad\u0131n, nedir bu kad\u0131n ma\u011fduriyeti; bu e\u015fitsizlik ne zaman son bulacak karde\u015fim….<\/p>\n

Hem sonra kolayca fl\u00f6rt edilen erkeklere ne denir, p… mi yoksa ba\u015fka bir \u015fey mi ? \u00a0Neden buna a\u00e7\u0131kl\u0131k getirilmiyor h\u0131? Sonra bekleyelim kanunlar\u0131m\u0131z Avrupa Standartlar\u0131nda, Avrupa Birli\u011fi’ne yak\u0131\u015fan yasalardan olsun.<\/p>\n

Bir de \u015fu var zina ve k\u00fcrtaj’da zaten hep kad\u0131n su\u00e7luydu; buna \u015fimdi bir de fl\u00f6rt eklendi.<\/p>\n

Ayr\u0131ca bildi\u011fim kadar\u0131yla fl\u00f6rt \u00e7ift tarafl\u0131 ya\u015fan\u0131yor. Erkek ve kad\u0131n fl\u00f6rt etmeden hayat arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 bulamazlar bu bilinen bir ger\u00e7ektir.\u00a0\u00a0Bu \u00a0kad\u0131n\u0131 a\u015fa\u011f\u0131layan\u00a0d\u00fczenlemleri getirenler m\u00fcsait olmad\u0131klar\u0131 gibi fl\u00f6rt de etmiyorlarsa hi\u00e7 birinin sevgilisi, kar\u0131s\u0131, kocas\u0131 yok mudur acaba?<\/p>\n

\"flort\"<\/a><\/p>\n

\u0130lla fl\u00f6rt edilince, seks de yap\u0131lm\u0131\u015f olmuyor. \u00a0Zira, bu d\u00fczenlemeyi getirenlerin akl\u0131 ba\u015fka yerde olsa gerek.<\/p>\n

Di\u015fi k\u00f6pek kuyruk sallamadan erkek k\u00f6pek gelmez, yana\u015famaz denir ancak \u00e7o\u011fu fl\u00f6rt\u00fc de ba\u015flatan kad\u0131n de\u011fil erkektir biliyorsunuz. Ya buna ne demeli?<\/p>\n

K\u00fcrtaj ve zinadan sonra \u015fimdi de s\u0131ra fl\u00f6rtte demek ki, zaten bunlar\u0131n hi\u00e7 birinde erkek yok ne yap\u0131yorsa hep kad\u0131n yap\u0131yor. \u00a0\u015eeriat kanunlar\u0131n\u0131n mant\u0131\u011f\u0131nda da kad\u0131n\u0131 a\u015fa\u011f\u0131lama, hor g\u00f6rme vard\u0131r. \u00a0Kad\u0131n y\u00fcceltilece\u011fine hep yerin dibine vurulur, adam yerine konmaz. \u00dclkemizde de malesef \u00e7o\u011fu do\u011fu \u015fehrinde aileler \u00e7ocuk say\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 verdiklerinde k\u0131z \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131, \u00e7ocuk say\u0131s\u0131na dahil etmezler asla.<\/p>\n

Umar\u0131m \u00fclkemize \u015feriat kanunlar\u0131 gelmez… zira g\u00f6r\u00fcnen k\u00f6y de k\u0131lavuz istemez ama. \u00a0Belki y\u0131llar \u00f6ncesinde TDK’n\u0131n kapat\u0131lmas\u0131 konusu tekrar g\u00fcndem kazan\u0131r; ancak bu da sonu\u00e7 de\u011fil ki; mantalite de\u011fi\u015fmedikten sonra….<\/p>\n

Zira yaz\u0131m\u0131 sonland\u0131r\u0131ken, ben ve benim \u00e7evremdeki \u00e7o\u011fu bekar bayan arkada\u015f\u0131m FL\u00d6RT\u00dc severiz bizi HAKEDEN SEVD\u0130\u011e\u0130M\u0130Z ADAMLA,ancak M\u00dcSA\u0130T DE\u011e\u0130L\u0130Z….<\/strong><\/p>\n

Sayg\u0131lar\u0131mla,<\/p>\n

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“Bir kad\u0131n\u0131 40 erkek ister 1’i al\u0131r, bir adam\u0131 40 kad\u0131n ister; 40\u0131 da al\u0131r \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc erkek vicdanl\u0131d\u0131r, k\u0131yamaz hi\u00e7 bir kad\u0131n\u0131 de\u011ferlendirmeden g\u00f6ndermeye :))).” Bu \u00a0\u015fu aralar sosyal medyada d\u00f6nen espri konular\u0131ndan biri. \u00a0Erkek kad\u0131n aras\u0131nda \u00a0sadece biyolojik fark yok malesef, bu memlekte yasalar ve di\u011fer d\u00fczenlemeler de malesef bu e\u015fitsizli\u011fi destekler nitelikteler. Biliyorsunuz […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-64","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-makaleler"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/dgtanhukuk.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/64","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/dgtanhukuk.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/dgtanhukuk.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dgtanhukuk.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dgtanhukuk.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=64"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/dgtanhukuk.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/64\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":66,"href":"https:\/\/dgtanhukuk.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/64\/revisions\/66"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/dgtanhukuk.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=64"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dgtanhukuk.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=64"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dgtanhukuk.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=64"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}