{"id":37,"date":"2015-05-17T09:08:44","date_gmt":"2015-05-17T06:08:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/dgtanhukuk.com\/blog\/?p=37"},"modified":"2015-07-06T09:40:09","modified_gmt":"2015-07-06T06:40:09","slug":"eceline-mi-susadin-sen","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dgtanhukuk.com\/blog\/index.php\/2015\/05\/17\/eceline-mi-susadin-sen\/","title":{"rendered":"Eceline Mi Susad\u0131n Sen?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Mutsuz insan tiplemesine, en ba\u015fta spor imkan\u0131 olup da yapmayanlar giriyor zannedersem.<\/p>\n

\u00d6n\u00fcnde kocaman g\u00f6be\u011fi, bak\u0131ms\u0131zl\u0131ktan toparla\u00e7 gibi olmu\u015f bir beden, elinden sigara ve i\u00e7kisini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrmeyen,\u00a0homini g\u0131rtlak yemek yiyip sinirini yemeklerden \u00e7\u0131karan ve v\u00fccudunu, sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 umursamayan insan kitlesi. \u00a0Eceline susayan insanlar…\u00a0Bu insan grubunun say\u0131s\u0131 ve hacmi artt\u0131k\u00e7a; memlekette uyu\u015fmazl\u0131k konular\u0131 ve s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lar da art\u0131yor.<\/p>\n

\u015eimdi nedir bana bunu yazd\u0131ran s\u00f6yleyeyim hemen.<\/p>\n

Zira filinta gibi de\u011filiz ancak Allaha \u015f\u00fck\u00fcr kendime dikkat eden bir taraf\u0131m vard\u0131r hep. \u00a0Zaten ne me laz\u0131m, s\u0131k\u0131ysa bir kilo alay\u0131m, bak\u0131ms\u0131zla\u015fay\u0131m; sa\u011folsun benim \u00e7evremdeki herkes \u00e7ok ac\u0131mas\u0131z. \u00a0Hemen ikaz ederler, hem de a\u011f\u0131r bir \u015fekilde; neymi\u015f efendim kilo alm\u0131\u015f\u0131m, neymi\u015f spordan uzakla\u015f m\u0131\u015f\u0131m,…. neymi\u015f ecelime mi susam\u0131\u015f\u0131m…\u00a0Sigara kullanmam, sporumu eksiksiz yapmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r\u0131m, yedi\u011fime i\u00e7ti\u011fime dikkat ederim etmesine ancak \u015fu ara yogaya merak sarm\u0131\u015f ruh halimle; ger\u00e7ek hayatla pembe hayat aras\u0131nda denge kurmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yorum…<\/p>\n

\"namaste1\"<\/a><\/p>\n

“Nameste” diye diye yoga yap\u0131yoruz. \u00a0T\u00fcm s\u0131n\u0131fla transa ge\u00e7iyoruz. \u00a0\u00c7o\u011fu zaman hep g\u00fcl\u00fcp, anlam veremedi\u011fim bu spor dal\u0131yla hayat buluyorum size yemin ederim ki.. Herkese \u00f6neririm.<\/p>\n

Spor yapmak farkl\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnme becerisi de getiriyor insana. \u00a0Bu sayede, \u00a0uyu\u015fmazl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm yolunu ararken kar\u015f\u0131 taraf\u0131n can\u0131na bela okumadan; m\u00fc\u015fterek yolla kazan-kazan sistemi ve iste\u011fi geli\u015ftiriyor beyniniz ve kalbiniz.<\/p>\n

Bu hafta uzun s\u00fcredir dava a\u015famas\u0131nda oldu\u011fumuz birden fazla uyu\u015fmazl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ofisimde yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m arabuluculuk seans\u0131yla \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcme kavu\u015fturdum.\u00a0\u015eimdi bana derseniz ki, bu m\u00fcvekkillerin yoga yaparak m\u0131 geldiler senin ofise, o y\u00fczden mi?\u00a0Valla, ne alaka demeyin ger\u00e7ekten de do\u011fru. \u00a0Hepsi yoga yapmasa da spora ciddi vakit ay\u0131ran taraflar.<\/p>\n

Zira her birinin d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce \u015fekli yumu\u015fak; \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm odakl\u0131, zaman ve emek tasarrufu odakl\u0131.<\/p>\n

Bir kere daha bahsetmek gerekirse; hangi uyu\u015fmazl\u0131klar “arabuluculu\u011fa” uygun diye?<\/p>\n

Taraflar\u0131n \u00fczerinde serbest\u00e7e tasarrufta bulunabilecekleri t\u00fcm \u00f6zel hukuk uyu\u015fmazl\u0131klar\u0131 uygundur.<\/p>\n

Buna bo\u015fanma karar\u0131 haricinde, i\u00e7inde \u015fiddet unsuru olmayan t\u00fcm ailevi uyu\u015fmazl\u0131klar, alacak davalar\u0131, tazminat davalar\u0131, i\u015f\u00e7i-i\u015fveren uyu\u015fmazl\u0131klar\u0131 ve kamu hukukuna girmeyen t\u00fcm \u00f6zel hukuk davalar\u0131 girer.<\/p>\n

Bana derseniz ki, “yahu namasteyle ne ilgisi var uzla\u015fman\u0131n. \u00a0Arabuluculu\u011fu buna da m\u0131 bula\u015ft\u0131r\u0131yorsun; diye?”<\/p>\n

Cevab\u0131m “koca bir evet” olacakt\u0131r. \u00a0Zira d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncede s\u0131n\u0131r yoktur, marjinalli\u011fi de katarsak ben birle\u015ftirmeyece\u011fim de kim birle\u015ftirecek :). \u00a0Tabii ki, buna paralel olarak nameste”nin s\u00f6zl\u00fck anlam\u0131n\u0131 da yazmak isterim ,\u00a0\u00a0Namaste s\u00f6zc\u00fc\u011f\u00fc, bire bir \u00e7evrildi\u011finde: \u201cSenin \u00f6n\u00fcnde sayg\u0131yla e\u011filiyorum\u201d anlam\u0131na gelir.<\/p>\n

Herkes birbirinin \u00f6n\u00fcnde sayg\u0131yla e\u011filsin ve uyu\u015fmazl\u0131klar\u0131nda orta yolu bulmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fs\u0131n.<\/p>\n

Ya\u015fas\u0131n “Namaste” ya\u015fas\u0131n “Arabuluculuk”. Ecele susamayan bir hayata merhaba diyelim; \u00a0ge\u00e7 ve g\u00fc\u00e7 olmadan..<\/p>\n

Sayg\u0131lar\u0131mla<\/p>\n

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Mutsuz insan tiplemesine, en ba\u015fta spor imkan\u0131 olup da yapmayanlar giriyor zannedersem. \u00d6n\u00fcnde kocaman g\u00f6be\u011fi, bak\u0131ms\u0131zl\u0131ktan toparla\u00e7 gibi olmu\u015f bir beden, elinden sigara ve i\u00e7kisini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrmeyen,\u00a0homini g\u0131rtlak yemek yiyip sinirini yemeklerden \u00e7\u0131karan ve v\u00fccudunu, sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 umursamayan insan kitlesi. \u00a0Eceline susayan insanlar…\u00a0Bu insan grubunun say\u0131s\u0131 ve hacmi artt\u0131k\u00e7a; memlekette uyu\u015fmazl\u0131k konular\u0131 ve s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lar da art\u0131yor. \u015eimdi […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-37","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-makaleler"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/dgtanhukuk.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/37","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/dgtanhukuk.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/dgtanhukuk.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dgtanhukuk.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dgtanhukuk.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=37"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/dgtanhukuk.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/37\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":98,"href":"https:\/\/dgtanhukuk.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/37\/revisions\/98"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/dgtanhukuk.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=37"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dgtanhukuk.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=37"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dgtanhukuk.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=37"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}