{"id":25,"date":"2015-07-06T08:50:17","date_gmt":"2015-07-06T05:50:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/dgtanhukuk.com\/blog\/?p=25"},"modified":"2015-07-06T08:50:17","modified_gmt":"2015-07-06T05:50:17","slug":"arabulucugu-daha-da-sevdirecegiz-gibi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dgtanhukuk.com\/blog\/index.php\/2015\/07\/06\/arabulucugu-daha-da-sevdirecegiz-gibi\/","title":{"rendered":"Arabulucu\u011fu Daha da Sevdirece\u011fiz Gibi"},"content":{"rendered":"

2 y\u0131l \u00f6nceydi, Amerika’da bu i\u015fin e\u011fitimini ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m Ohio State University ve di\u011fer birka\u00e7 Amerikan \u00dcniversite’sinden bu i\u015fin piri hocalar\u0131 \u0130stanbul’a davet edip, arabuluculuk konusunda sempozyum d\u00fczenledi\u011fim…\u00a0O s\u00fcre i\u00e7erisinde de, arabuluculu\u011fu tan\u0131tmak ad\u0131na\u00a0\u00e7e\u015fitli say\u0131da\u00a0yaz\u0131l\u0131 ve g\u00f6rsel medyada yer ald\u0131m, hala da al\u0131yorum zaman zaman….<\/p>\n

T\u00fcrkiye’de \u00e7o\u011fu g\u00fczel \u015feyin tan\u0131nmas\u0131, \u00f6\u011frenilmesinin ve benimsenmesinin\u00a0zaman ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 gibi vatanda\u015f\u0131n “arabuluculuk”la tan\u0131\u015fmas\u0131 da zaman al\u0131yor…. \u00a0Neyse ki umdu\u011fumdan daha da h\u0131zl\u0131 ilerliyor s\u00fcre\u00e7.<\/p>\n

\u00d6yle ki haftada bir yazd\u0131\u011f\u0131m k\u00f6\u015femde bile okuyucular\u0131m aras\u0131ndan “Arabuluculuk nedir ? Hangi uyu\u015fmazl\u0131klar i\u00e7in ba\u015fvuruyoruz?” \u015feklinde emailler al\u0131yorum. \u00a0Tabii, arabuluculu\u011fu ele\u015ftirenlerin say\u0131s\u0131 da az de\u011fil; kimisi de Avukat s\u0131fat\u0131m\u0131n yan\u0131nda Arabulucu unvan\u0131n\u0131 kullan\u0131yor olmam\u0131 ele\u015ftiriyor… Olsun vars\u0131n ele\u015ftirsinler; ben de daha ba\u015fka avukatlar gibi,\u00a0ikisi de birdenim ve lay\u0131k\u0131yla birden muvaffak olmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yorum; takdir edersiniz ki. (Kendimi \u00f6v\u00fcyor gibi olmas\u0131n, narsizm ve iticili\u011fin yeri de\u011fil :)))<\/p>\n

\"arabuluculuk_gizem\"<\/a><\/p>\n

Hemen belirteyim efendim, hangi uyu\u015fmazl\u0131klar i\u00e7in beni avukat haricinde ayn\u0131 zamanda arabulucu olarak g\u00f6rebilce\u011finizi? E\u011fer kar\u015f\u0131 tarafla aran\u0131zda ceza ya da idare hukukuna girmeyen \u00f6zel hukuk ili\u015fkisinden do\u011fan bir uyu\u015fmazl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z varsa; alacak verecek ili\u015fkisi, aile uyu\u015fmazl\u0131\u011f\u0131, miras uyu\u015fmazl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ya da bunun gibi \u00fczerinde serbest\u00e7e tasarrufta bulunabilece\u011finiz t\u00fcrden uyu\u015fmazl\u0131klar; ve de\u00a0aran\u0131zda maddi- manevi bir \u015fiddet de bulunmuyorsa\u00a0e\u011fer buyrun o zaman arabuluculuk seanslar\u0131na ? Bir deneyin.\u00a0Hi\u00e7 mahkemelerde kuyruklar bekleyip, duru\u015fma g\u00fcn\u00fc alabilmek i\u00e7in debelenmemize gerek yok. \u00a0Hem keseniz de rahat edecektir; zira arabuluculuk seanslar\u0131 i\u00e7in seans \u00fccreti \u00f6d\u00fcyorsunuz sadece….. Har\u00e7 yok, masraf yok…<\/p>\n

Ne dersiniz, kula\u011fa ho\u015f gelmiyor mu?<\/p>\n

Bana gelen di\u011fer bir email, en \u00e7ok hangi tarz uyu\u015fmazl\u0131klar i\u00e7in ofisime arabuluculuk\u00a0ba\u015fvurusu oldu\u011fu konusunda.<\/p>\n

Di\u011fer meslekta\u015flar\u0131m\u0131 bilmem ancak bana en \u00e7ok icraya d\u00fc\u015fen bor\u00e7 ili\u015fkileri ve miras davalar\u0131nda ba\u015fvurular oluyor. \u00a0Miras konusu, aile hukuku konusunu ilgilendiriyor da olsa; hakim karar\u0131n\u0131n bulunmas\u0131 zorunlu olmayan durumlar i\u00e7in ba\u015fvuru oluyor genelde. Mesela bir bo\u015fanma ilam\u0131 almak ya da nafaka\u00a0i\u00e7in ofisime ba\u015fvuranlar\u0131; bu konu hakk\u0131nda bilgilendirip; ba\u015fvurunun yap\u0131lmas\u0131 gereken yerin ben de\u011fil fakat adliye oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yl\u00fcyorum. O durumda hakimden karar al\u0131yoruz ancak di\u011fer miras konular\u0131 bu kapsama girmiyor.<\/p>\n

Taraflar aras\u0131nda ileti\u015fim a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan \u015fiddetin hi\u00e7 bir t\u00fcrl\u00fcs\u00fcn\u00fcn olmamas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini s\u00f6yl\u00fcyoruz; ancak ya seans ba\u015flad\u0131ktan sonra taraflar birbirlerine girer; ba\u011f\u0131r\u0131\u015f, \u00e7a\u011f\u0131r\u0131\u015f ba\u015flarsa ne oluyor diye soruyorsan\u0131z? Ben hemen s\u00f6yleyeyim, seansa hemen son verip, oradan uzakla\u015f\u0131n. ( ve ortam\u0131 terkedin arkan\u0131za dahi bakmadan ko\u015fun dermi\u015fim :)))<\/p>\n

Zira ben; ba\u011f\u0131rt\u0131\u00a0 \u00e7a\u011f\u0131rt\u0131ya, huzursuzlu\u011fa tahamm\u00fcls\u00fczl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcmle bilinen yap\u0131mla biliniyorum \u00e7evremde. \u00a0Belki de hep sonucu tatl\u0131ya ba\u011flama iste\u011fimden \u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fc, hep uyu\u015fmazl\u0131klar\u0131 \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcme ba\u011flayabildim \u015fimdiye kadar. \u00a0Bu da avukat\u00a0s\u0131fat\u0131mla de\u011fil, arabulucu s\u0131fat\u0131mla m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olabildi. \u00a0Allah da devam\u0131n\u0131 getirsin in\u015fallah…<\/p>\n

Arabuluculu\u011fu bir deneyin, uyu\u015fmazl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131z hem tatl\u0131ya ba\u011flanacak, hem de iki taraf kazan\u00e7l\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kacak… \u0130nan\u0131n bana…<\/p>\n

Sayg\u0131lar\u0131mla,<\/p>\n

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2 y\u0131l \u00f6nceydi, Amerika’da bu i\u015fin e\u011fitimini ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m Ohio State University ve di\u011fer birka\u00e7 Amerikan \u00dcniversite’sinden bu i\u015fin piri hocalar\u0131 \u0130stanbul’a davet edip, arabuluculuk konusunda sempozyum d\u00fczenledi\u011fim…\u00a0O s\u00fcre i\u00e7erisinde de, arabuluculu\u011fu tan\u0131tmak ad\u0131na\u00a0\u00e7e\u015fitli say\u0131da\u00a0yaz\u0131l\u0131 ve g\u00f6rsel medyada yer ald\u0131m, hala da al\u0131yorum zaman zaman…. T\u00fcrkiye’de \u00e7o\u011fu g\u00fczel \u015feyin tan\u0131nmas\u0131, \u00f6\u011frenilmesinin ve benimsenmesinin\u00a0zaman ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 gibi vatanda\u015f\u0131n […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-25","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-makaleler"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/dgtanhukuk.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/dgtanhukuk.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/dgtanhukuk.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dgtanhukuk.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dgtanhukuk.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=25"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/dgtanhukuk.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":27,"href":"https:\/\/dgtanhukuk.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25\/revisions\/27"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/dgtanhukuk.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=25"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dgtanhukuk.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=25"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dgtanhukuk.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=25"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}