{"id":236,"date":"2016-06-06T09:10:42","date_gmt":"2016-06-06T06:10:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/dgtanhukuk.com\/blog\/?p=236"},"modified":"2016-07-14T09:10:53","modified_gmt":"2016-07-14T06:10:53","slug":"haykirircasina-agla-acilirsin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dgtanhukuk.com\/blog\/index.php\/2016\/06\/06\/haykirircasina-agla-acilirsin\/","title":{"rendered":"Hayk\u0131r\u0131rcas\u0131na A\u011fla A\u00e7\u0131l\u0131rs\u0131n !!!"},"content":{"rendered":"

Her neye kadirse, d\u00fcn yani pazar ak\u015fam\u00fczerinden beridir a\u011flad\u0131m da a\u011flad\u0131m. \u00a0Durmak bilmedi g\u00f6zlerimden akan ya\u015flar\u0131n miktar\u0131… A\u011flad\u0131m durdum, sonra bir daha a\u011flad\u0131m. \u00a0Biraz cam a\u00e7t\u0131m daha derin nefes alabilmek i\u00e7in. \u00a0Sonra i\u00e7ime \u00e7ekti\u011fim oksijen miktar\u0131n\u0131n fazlal\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan m\u0131d\u0131r bilmem, \u00a0 g\u00f6zya\u015flar\u0131m artm\u0131\u015f olarak\u00a0yine a\u011flad\u0131m. \u00a0Sonra Allah’a dua ettim. \u00a0Ancak, a\u011flama miktar\u0131m ve s\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131m o kadar artm\u0131\u015ft\u0131 ki, kalbimin h\u0131zl\u0131 at\u0131\u015f\u0131ndan h\u0131\u00e7k\u0131r\u0131k da ba\u015flam\u0131\u015f oldu. \u00a0Yan kom\u015fular dinliyor olsayd\u0131 herhalde birinin beni bo\u011fazlad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 felan d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrlerdi. \u00a0Sabah\u0131 zor ettim. \u00a0Bu kadar a\u011flama heveslisi ve sulu g\u00f6z oldu\u011fum s\u00f6ylenemez ger\u00e7i; ama demek ki \u00f6yleymi\u015fim. \u00a0Ya da birikim olsa gerek.. Hem insano\u011flu ad\u0131na, hem de bireysel bir tak\u0131m h\u00fcz\u00fcnler hepsi kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131..\u00a0 \u00a0D\u00fcn sabah rahmetli dedemin mezar\u0131n\u0131 ziyaret etmi\u015ftim; san\u0131r\u0131m bu ziyaret beni etkilemi\u015f olmal\u0131…. Hayat\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcm. \u00a0\u00dcz\u00fcnt\u00fcleri… \u0130steyip de yap\u0131lamayanlar\u0131…. Kalp k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131…. Her \u015feyi… D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm g\u00fczel hi\u00e7 bir \u015fey yoktu… T\u00fcm a\u011flamam kesilene de\u011fin… Mezarda usul usul yatt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm ve bana \u00e7ok d\u00fc\u015fk\u00fcn olan dedeci\u011fimin mezar ta\u015f\u0131na bakarken i\u00e7imden \u015funu s\u00f6yledim “Dede, kalk bak ben kocaman k\u0131z oldum. \u00a0Hayat\u0131 \u00f6\u011frendim. \u00a0Hayat toz pembe hi\u00e7 de\u011filmi\u015f dede! \u00c7ok zormu\u015f… ”<\/p>\n

\"aglamak\"<\/a><\/p>\n

Bu a\u011flama seanslar\u0131m sabah 7’ye do\u011fru son buldu. \u00a0Hayat\u0131n rutini ve yapmam\u0131z gereken i\u015fler, adliye ko\u015fu\u015fturmalar\u0131 ve M\u00fcvekkillerin derdine derman olma arzu ve y\u00fck\u00fcml\u00fcl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcyle yeni haftaya ba\u015flad\u0131k hay\u0131rl\u0131s\u0131yla…<\/p>\n

Hayat\u0131 ve \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fcleri d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fck\u00e7e hayat\u0131n ge\u00e7meyece\u011fini ve bir o kadar da kah\u0131r \u0131zd\u0131rab\u0131yla ge\u00e7irmenin ruhumuzda derin yaralar ve hastal\u0131klara mani olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilen insano\u011flu elbette g\u00fclmek de istiyor. \u00a0Hadsizce at\u0131lan\u00a0kahkahalar da san\u0131r\u0131m bunun i\u00e7in, \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fclere meydan okumak i\u00e7in; san\u0131r\u0131m spor aktivetelerinin varl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ve hobilerin var olma sebebi de bu \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fc ve \u0131zd\u0131raplarla sava\u015fma mant\u0131\u011f\u0131..<\/p>\n

\u0130nsano\u011flu her \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fcs\u00fcn\u00fc, s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 ve kederini bir \u015fekilde bilin\u00e7alt\u0131na de\u011fil bence arkas\u0131na atabilmeyi bilmeli. \u00a0Mutlu olman\u0131n yollar\u0131n\u0131 mutlaka; ama mutlaka bulmal\u0131 ve \u00e7evresindeki e\u015fini, dostunu, arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 ve en \u00f6nemlisi de\u00a0hayat arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131 do\u011fru se\u00e7ebilmeli. \u00a0Ama en ba\u015f\u0131nda da\u00a0kendi kendine yetebilmeli. \u00a0Kendi kendine \u00f6z sayg\u0131n\u0131 tutabildi\u011fin \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcde ve \u00a0hayata kar\u015f\u0131 ba\u015f\u0131n dik durdu\u011funda; senden g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc insan olmuyor ve o derece de ba\u015fkalar\u0131 i\u00e7in sayg\u0131n ki\u015filik kazanm\u0131\u015f oluyorsun… Arada bir de b\u00f6\u011f\u00fcr\u00fcrcesine, hatta hayk\u0131r\u0131rcas\u0131na, an\u0131r\u0131rcas\u0131na a\u011flamak gerekiyor. \u00a0Allah b\u00fcy\u00fck dertler \u00e7aresizlikler vermesin…<\/p>\n

Bu arada, t\u00fcm \u0130slam Alemine Hay\u0131rl\u0131 Ramazanlar Dilerim …<\/p>\n

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Her neye kadirse, d\u00fcn yani pazar ak\u015fam\u00fczerinden beridir a\u011flad\u0131m da a\u011flad\u0131m. \u00a0Durmak bilmedi g\u00f6zlerimden akan ya\u015flar\u0131n miktar\u0131… A\u011flad\u0131m durdum, sonra bir daha a\u011flad\u0131m. \u00a0Biraz cam a\u00e7t\u0131m daha derin nefes alabilmek i\u00e7in. \u00a0Sonra i\u00e7ime \u00e7ekti\u011fim oksijen miktar\u0131n\u0131n fazlal\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan m\u0131d\u0131r bilmem, \u00a0 g\u00f6zya\u015flar\u0131m artm\u0131\u015f olarak\u00a0yine a\u011flad\u0131m. \u00a0Sonra Allah’a dua ettim. \u00a0Ancak, a\u011flama miktar\u0131m ve s\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131m o kadar […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-236","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-makaleler"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/dgtanhukuk.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/236","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/dgtanhukuk.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/dgtanhukuk.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dgtanhukuk.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dgtanhukuk.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=236"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/dgtanhukuk.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/236\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":238,"href":"https:\/\/dgtanhukuk.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/236\/revisions\/238"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/dgtanhukuk.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=236"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dgtanhukuk.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=236"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dgtanhukuk.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=236"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}