{"id":133,"date":"2015-09-22T10:02:16","date_gmt":"2015-09-22T07:02:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/dgtanhukuk.com\/blog\/?p=133"},"modified":"2015-10-07T10:02:32","modified_gmt":"2015-10-07T07:02:32","slug":"yeni-bir-kitap-daha-yolda","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dgtanhukuk.com\/blog\/index.php\/2015\/09\/22\/yeni-bir-kitap-daha-yolda\/","title":{"rendered":"Yeni Bir Kitap Daha Yolda"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sezen Aksu, “Nihayet” isimli par\u00e7as\u0131nda diyor ki;<\/p>\n

Uyand\u0131m bembeyaz bir sabaht\u0131<\/p>\n

Son y\u0131llardaki en sert ayazd\u0131
\nS\u0131cac\u0131kt\u0131n taze kahve tad\u0131nda
\nHavaland\u0131 kalbim ku\u015f kanad\u0131nda<\/p>\n

Oysa umut ne kadar azd\u0131
\nG\u00fcndelikti, anl\u0131kt\u0131, birazd\u0131
\nOk\u015farken inat\u00e7\u0131 sa\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131
\nHissetti\u011fim kara k\u0131\u015fta sar\u0131 yazd\u0131<\/p>\n

Nihayet, nihayet, nihayet
\nDiyar diyar gezdim geldim
\nSafiyeti sezdim geldim
\nKendi ate\u015fiyle yanan pervaneydim
\nYalan\u0131mdan bezdim geldim …..<\/p>\n

Zeki M\u00fcren de ” \u0130\u015fte benim Zeki M\u00fcren” isimli par\u00e7as\u0131nda;<\/p>\n

Kimsesizlerin kimsesiziyim kimsesizim<\/p>\n

yaln\u0131zlar\u0131n yaln\u0131z\u0131y\u0131m yaln\u0131z\u0131m
\ndertlilerin dertlisiyim dertliyim
\na\u015f\u0131klar\u0131n a\u015fk\u0131y\u0131m a\u015f\u0131k\u0131m
\nismim mesut g\u00f6bek ad\u0131m bahtiyar
\ny\u0131llarca hep b\u00f6yle bildiniz siz
\nmesut bahtiyardan \u015fark\u0131lar dinlediniz”<\/p>\n

\u0130ki par\u00e7a aras\u0131ndaki benzerli\u011fi bulunuz ?<\/p>\n

Bence \u015fu; ikisinde de zarif\u00e7e d\u0131\u015far\u0131ya \u00e7akt\u0131r\u0131lan\u00a0bir h\u00fcz\u00fcn ve yaln\u0131zl\u0131k var. \u00a0\u0130ki \u015fark\u0131da da h\u00fcz\u00fcn ve umutsuzluk ba\u011f\u0131ra ba\u011f\u0131ra anlat\u0131lm\u0131yor asla. \u0130lk par\u00e7ada “zaten mutsuzum, umutsuzum ancak daha fazla direnemiyorum; nihayet seni buldum da ayaz\u0131m, k\u0131\u015f\u0131m yaza d\u00f6nd\u00fc” denilmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131l\u0131yor; asl\u0131nda tamamen avuntu var bence. \u0130kinci \u015fark\u0131 da ise, hat\u0131rlarsan\u0131z Allah rahmet eylesin Zeki M\u00fcren’in de hem ekrandaki g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcs\u00fc hem de radyo ve teypten gelen sesi her zaman \u015fen, \u015fakrak ve h\u00fc\u00fcnden \u00e7ok uzakt\u0131. \u00a0Yan\u0131l\u0131yor muyum, bilmiyorum. \u00a0O zaman daha ben \u00e7ocuktum; ama en az\u0131ndan haf\u0131zamda bu \u015fekilde kalm\u0131\u015f. \u00a0 “Asl\u0131nda \u00e7ok yaln\u0131z\u0131m ve mutsuzum” diyor. Kendisini \u015fark\u0131yla ki\u015fiselle\u015ftirmi\u015f, “mesut bahtiyar sadece g\u00f6r\u00fcnen Zeki M\u00fcren’dir”, diyor.<\/p>\n

Bu iki par\u00e7an\u0131n di\u011fer benzer y\u00f6n\u00fcyse; ikisinin de hayat kokuyor oldu\u011fudur bence. \u0130nand\u0131\u011f\u0131m bir \u015fey var ki, d\u00fcnyada en mutlu oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yleyen bir insan bile; t\u00fcm h\u00fcz\u00fcnlerini, korkular\u0131n\u0131, yaln\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ve umutsuzluklar\u0131n\u0131 gizleyebildi\u011fi \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcde, kulak arkas\u0131na atabildi\u011fi \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcde mutludur. \u00a0Mutluluk ancak b\u00f6yle m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olabilir.<\/p>\n

\"huzun\"<\/a><\/p>\n

Arabuluculukla yani uzal\u015fmayla giderilen t\u00fcm \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcmler de aynen b\u00f6yle i\u015fte…. Kazan-kazan ilkesi de ayn\u0131 hayat gibi.. T\u00fcm isteklerini kar\u015f\u0131 taraftan alamayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ya da kar\u015f\u0131 tarafa yapt\u0131ramayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlayan taraflar; h\u00fcz\u00fcnlerini ve mutsuzluklar\u0131n\u0131 alabildikleriyle \u00f6rtbas edebildikleri \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcde mutlu oluyorlar ve beynen kendilerini buna kanalize ediyorlar. \u00a0\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bunun ikamesi olan mahkeme s\u00fcresince 50% kaybetme ihtimalini g\u00f6ze ald\u0131klar\u0131nda daha da y\u0131k\u0131l\u0131yorlar, ya da bunu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmek bile istemiyorlar. \u00a0Zaman kayb\u0131 da cabas\u0131… Tabii bunu b\u00f6yle d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeyen insanlar da olabilir. \u00a0Ama \u00e7o\u011fu insan en az\u0131ndan art\u0131k b\u00f6yle d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc i\u00e7in, arabuluculuk en nihayetinde\u00a0insanlar\u0131n hukuk uyu\u015fmazl\u0131klar\u0131nda ba\u015fvurulmas\u0131 mutlaka gereken \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm s\u00fcreci olarak kendisini kabul ettirebildi…<\/p>\n

\u0130lk roman\u0131m “Siyah Tela\u015f”‘\u0131n okuyucular taraf\u0131ndan sevilip, ilgiyle okunmas\u0131 bana \u015fevk verdi. (Almayanlar ve hen\u00fcz okumam\u0131\u015f olanlar, t\u00fcm kitap\u00e7\u0131lardan temin edebilirler.) \u00a0Bir sonraki kitab\u0131m\u0131 yazmaya ba\u015flad\u0131m ben de hemen. \u00a0Bu sefer ki, Arabuluculuk’la ilgili olacak… Piyasaya s\u00fcr\u00fcm\u00fc, \u00f6n\u00fcm\u00fczdeki seneyi bulur.. Geli\u015fmelerden haberdar ederim\u00a0sizi, sevgili ve de\u011ferli okuyucalar\u0131m\u0131…<\/p>\n

Sayg\u0131lar\u0131mla,<\/p>\n

Avukat \/ Arabulucu Gizem Tan<\/p>\n

gizem.tan@dgtanhukuk.com<\/p>\n

www.dgtanhukuk.com<\/p>\n

twitter@avukatgizemtan<\/p>\n

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Sezen Aksu, “Nihayet” isimli par\u00e7as\u0131nda diyor ki; Uyand\u0131m bembeyaz bir sabaht\u0131 Son y\u0131llardaki en sert ayazd\u0131 S\u0131cac\u0131kt\u0131n taze kahve tad\u0131nda Havaland\u0131 kalbim ku\u015f kanad\u0131nda Oysa umut ne kadar azd\u0131 G\u00fcndelikti, anl\u0131kt\u0131, birazd\u0131 Ok\u015farken inat\u00e7\u0131 sa\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 Hissetti\u011fim kara k\u0131\u015fta sar\u0131 yazd\u0131 Nihayet, nihayet, nihayet Diyar diyar gezdim geldim Safiyeti sezdim geldim Kendi ate\u015fiyle yanan pervaneydim Yalan\u0131mdan […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-133","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-makaleler"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/dgtanhukuk.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/133","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/dgtanhukuk.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/dgtanhukuk.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dgtanhukuk.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dgtanhukuk.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=133"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/dgtanhukuk.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/133\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":135,"href":"https:\/\/dgtanhukuk.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/133\/revisions\/135"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/dgtanhukuk.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=133"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dgtanhukuk.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=133"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dgtanhukuk.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=133"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}