{"id":118,"date":"2015-08-18T10:15:50","date_gmt":"2015-08-18T07:15:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/dgtanhukuk.com\/blog\/?p=118"},"modified":"2015-08-19T10:16:02","modified_gmt":"2015-08-19T07:16:02","slug":"corbanin-icine-bir-kere-sinek-dustu-mu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dgtanhukuk.com\/blog\/index.php\/2015\/08\/18\/corbanin-icine-bir-kere-sinek-dustu-mu\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c7orban\u0131n \u0130\u00e7ine Bir Kere Sinek D\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc m\u00fc…."},"content":{"rendered":"

“Tela\u015f” “A\u015fk” “Ba\u011flanma” derken bir \u00f6m\u00fcr ge\u00e7iyor da haberimiz olmuyor….<\/p>\n

Sonra, bir bak\u0131yorsun ki,”sen a\u015fk”s\u0131n dedi\u011fin seni kendisine deli divane eden, \u00e7oktaaan \u00e7ekip gitmeyi kafas\u0131na koymu\u015f da, gitmeyi inat etmi\u015f de, gidi\u015f biletini sana hi\u00e7 sormadan alm\u0131\u015f bile…Kalan hep geride kalana oluyor; i\u015fte geride kalan da hep daha \u00e7ok seven oluyor.Y\u0131llanm\u0131\u015f nice beraberlikler, evlilikler “\u015fak” diye bitiveriyorsa demek ki var bir \u015feyler…<\/p>\n

Vicdan\u0131m\u0131, y\u00fcre\u011fimi ve akl\u0131m\u0131; ayr\u0131l\u0131klar\u0131 sevmeyen ve\u00a0 bo\u015fanmalara kar\u015f\u0131 duran ruh haliyle yo\u011furdum bu hale getirdim.Hatta yazd\u0131\u011f\u0131m roman bile, tutkusundan cay\u0131r cay\u0131r yanan, ayr\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 kendisine bir t\u00fcrl\u00fc yak\u0131\u015ft\u0131rmayan bir ili\u015fki \u00fczerine.\u00a0“Seninle bir \u00f6m\u00fcr boyu yola devam edemem; \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc sen egoistsin, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc senin \u015funun eksin, bana vakit ay\u0131rm\u0131yorsun,…..” gibisinden laflar\u0131 hi\u00e7 bir ili\u015fkiye yak\u0131\u015ft\u0131ramad\u0131m.<\/p>\n

\"arman\"<\/a><\/p>\n

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“\u00c7orban\u0131n i\u00e7ine sinek d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc m\u00fc, o sine\u011fi i\u00e7inden \u00e7ekip \u00e7\u0131karsan da; \u00e7orban\u0131n devam\u0131n\u0131 i\u00e7erken miden yine bulanmaya devam ediyor; o y\u00fczden insan vazge\u00e7meyi de\u00a0bilmelidir; gidebilmelidir…\u00d6nemli olan, o sine\u011fi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrmemektir.” Bu s\u00f6z\u00fc d\u00fcn bana \u00e7ok sevdi\u011fim bir ki\u015fi s\u00f6yledi, kula\u011f\u0131ma k\u00fcpe olsun diye…. \u0130leride laz\u0131m olabilir diye.. Belki de bir sonraki roman\u0131m\u0131n konusu olsun diye…<\/p>\n

Bir s\u00f6z, fikri bu kadar m\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirir? K\u0131r\u0131lan testiyi hangi yap\u0131\u015ft\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 yap\u0131\u015ft\u0131rabilir? Zorla g\u00fczellik olur mu?<\/p>\n

Ama; bir y\u0131l \u00f6nce sorsayd\u0131n\u0131z o zaman; “Yok hay\u0131r!” derdim. \u00a0“\u0130li\u015fkiler, ne olursa olsun devam etmeli. \u00a0Terkedilen, gideni engellemeli. \u00a0Kendini daha \u00e7ok sevdirmeli, gidi\u015fi-ayr\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 engellemeli. \u00a0Daha \u00e7ok beraber olunmal\u0131, sevi\u015filmeli, g\u00fczel s\u00f6zler s\u00f6ylenmeli, ayr\u0131l\u0131k olmas\u0131n diye daha \u00e7ok emek sarf edilmeli, sa\u00e7 s\u00fcp\u00fcrge edilmeli…”<\/p>\n

Kim bilir belki 30’lu ya\u015flar\u0131n egoistli\u011fi beni de sarm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r; belki de d\u00fcn \u00e7ok sevdi\u011fim ki\u015finin s\u00f6yledi\u011fi bu s\u00f6z…<\/p>\n

Roman\u0131m “Siyah Tela\u015f”\u0131, \u00e7ok k\u0131sa s\u00fcre i\u00e7erisinde T\u00fcrkiye genelinde t\u00fcm kitap\u00e7\u0131larda bulabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n

Sayg\u0131lar\u0131mla,<\/p>\n

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“Tela\u015f” “A\u015fk” “Ba\u011flanma” derken bir \u00f6m\u00fcr ge\u00e7iyor da haberimiz olmuyor…. Sonra, bir bak\u0131yorsun ki,”sen a\u015fk”s\u0131n dedi\u011fin seni kendisine deli divane eden, \u00e7oktaaan \u00e7ekip gitmeyi kafas\u0131na koymu\u015f da, gitmeyi inat etmi\u015f de, gidi\u015f biletini sana hi\u00e7 sormadan alm\u0131\u015f bile…Kalan hep geride kalana oluyor; i\u015fte geride kalan da hep daha \u00e7ok seven oluyor.Y\u0131llanm\u0131\u015f nice beraberlikler, evlilikler “\u015fak” […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-118","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-makaleler"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/dgtanhukuk.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/118","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/dgtanhukuk.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/dgtanhukuk.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dgtanhukuk.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dgtanhukuk.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=118"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/dgtanhukuk.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/118\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":120,"href":"https:\/\/dgtanhukuk.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/118\/revisions\/120"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/dgtanhukuk.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=118"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dgtanhukuk.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=118"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dgtanhukuk.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=118"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}